Question One:
When do I tell my boyfriend it's me or the ex girlfriend? No one has ever won at this with him except the ex girlfriend when she told him to stay away from some woman. Any woman who has told him to stop being friends with her has lost him.
Question Two:
I lose respect for my boyfriend when he doesn't take charge of situations. He doesn't take charge of problems or concerns with his ex. He doesn't take charge of our relationship. He also doesn't take charge with much. What can I do about this? I'm used to men taking charge and I like it.
Question Three:
I ultimatum my boyfriend and lost but won. He decided he'd marry me but wasn't happy about it. I am hoping you'll post this and some guy can tell me why he didn't break up with me all along if he knew I wanted to marry him but he didn't want to marry me?
Question Four:
My boyfriend and I broke up some time ago and I haven't found anyone that I love or even really could like like I did him. He's been dating and wanting to marry but he hasn't found anyone he said. Is it weird that I want to get back with him but I never slept with any of my dates since him and I'm sure he probably slept with a couple of the women he dated. I think women don't break that up easily and then I'll deal with the hidden "friends" that used to be dates. He won't have anyone to worry about because there wasn't anyone that got that close. Has anyone done this and what do you do to get through it and why do these other women stick around anyway? A man's point of view of this situation would be helpful.
September 7, 2009
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Question Three answer and I am a man. I don't think it matters if it's a man or a woman.Both genders can and have led others on or kept them around without marrying but thought it might happen. My view is women feel a clock ticking and won't waste time if it's obvious it's a waste of time and men have more time as long as a man doesn't feel alone if he's a man who doesn't want to be alone.
You tell your boyfriend it's you or the ex when you know if you lose him you won't care because what is going on is more than you can handle.
First question person needs to know that you shouldn't tell anyone who to keep or not, you don't have to date the guy if you don't like who he keeps in his life if it keeps him from loving you like he should.
I love this woman who has an ex boyfriend that isn't going away but she doesn't want him in the way she wants me. I don't feel threatened. She talks about him and they have a past but they don't have a future and they don't have a relationship present just a friendship that is present. I wouldn't give an ultimatum because I love her for not getting rid of this man it's what makes her special.
I think I get number four and I think I've been there. I broke up with a guy that I loved and I didn't want to date anyone because I was emotionally drained. He went off and dated many. We got back together and I was compared to those women. The same women that were pushed aside so he could be with me. He wasn't compared to anyone but the guy who flirted with me at the gas station - go figure some real competition - not. I couldn't stand the wonder and curiosity and jealous feelings. I broke up with him but when I told him I couldn't do this, he accused me of being with men that never existed. He told me I had slept with this guy at work and he knew it. It was weird and I'm glad he's not my boyfriend anymore. Sorry not a guy view
This is fun we get to be you for a day. Not a guy but think in question number three the guy didn't say anything because he liked having a girlfriend and if you played wife or anything close why marry you when he gets it without the whole thing. A ring is cheap compared to a lifetime. anyone can get engaged but marriage takes a little more. He keeps you all the way up to not having to commit for life. He was probably mad that he was forced to decide between losing you and in a way still losing you.
hey girl I went through this same problem. I couldn't get the other chicks out of my head. I had to move on and forget him.
I'm a man who broke up and dated a lot of women after my break up with a woman in a long term relationship. If this reason in number four is why she won't go out with me again, then I don't know what to say. Lady when people break up that's what goes on. I assume this woman is out sleeping with other men and I hope she is and is happy. My life moved on and in your case yours should too. The man wants to get back with you then what's it matter if he's slept with many women or not. He wants you.
Person in question number one. You never tell your boyfriend to pick you leave if you're in this type of love issue. No one's won because he isn't giving up that other woman for a reason. Either it's a rainy day person or it's love.
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